info@themuslim360.com +92 51 4862317

THE BOOK OF (The Wedlock)

Sahih Bukhari Hadith # 5124

Hadith on (The Wedlock) of Sahih Bukhari 5124 is about The Book Of THE BOOK OF (The Wedlock) as written by Imam Muhammad al-Bukhari. The original Hadith is written in Arabic and translated in English and Urdu. The chapter THE BOOK OF (The Wedlock) has 188 as total Hadith on this topic.

Hadith Book

Chapters

Hadith

وَقَالَ لِي طَلْقٌ : حَدَّثَنَا زَائِدَةُ ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ ، عَنْ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ فِيمَا عَرَّضْتُمْ بِهِ مِنْ خِطْبَةِ النِّسَاءِ سورة البقرة آية 235 ، يَقُولُ : إِنِّي أُرِيدُ التَّزْوِيجَ وَلَوَدِدْتُ أَنَّهُ تَيَسَّرَ لِي امْرَأَةٌ صَالِحَةٌ ، وَقَالَ الْقَاسِمُ : يَقُولُ : إِنَّكِ عَلَيَّ كَرِيمَةٌ وَإِنِّي فِيكِ لَرَاغِبٌ وَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَسَائِقٌ إِلَيْكِ خَيْرًا أَوْ نَحْوَ هَذَا ، وَقَالَ عَطَاءٌ : يُعَرِّضُ وَلَا يَبُوحُ ، يَقُولُ : إِنَّ لِي حَاجَةً وَأَبْشِرِي وَأَنْتِ بِحَمْدِ اللَّهِ نَافِقَةٌ ، وَتَقُولُ هِيَ : قَدْ أَسْمَعُ مَا تَقُولُ وَلَا تَعِدُ شَيْئًا وَلَا يُوَاعِدُ وَلِيُّهَا بِغَيْرِ عِلْمِهَا ، وَإِنْ وَاعَدَتْ رَجُلًا فِي عِدَّتِهَا ، ثُمَّ نَكَحَهَا بَعْدُ لَمْ يُفَرَّقْ بَيْنَهُمَا ، وَقَالَ الْحَسَنُ : لَا تُوَاعِدُوهُنَّ سِرًّا الزِّنَا ، وَيُذْكَرُ عَنْ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ : حَتَّى يَبْلُغَ الْكِتَابُ أَجَلَهُ تَنْقَضِيَ الْعِدَّةُ .

امام بخاری رحمہ اللہ نے کہا مجھ سے طلق بن غنام نے بیان کیا، کہا ہم سے زائدہ بن قدام نے بیان کیا، ان سے منصور بن معتمر نے، ان سے مجاہد نے کہ   ابن عباس رضی اللہ عنہما نے آیت «فيما عرضتم‏» کی تفسیر میں کہا کہ کوئی شخص کسی ایسی عورت سے جو عدت میں ہو کہے کہ میرا ارادہ نکاح کا ہے اور میری خواہش ہے کہ مجھے کوئی نیک بخت عورت میسر آ جائے اور اس نکاح میں قاسم بن محمد نے کہا کہ ( تعریض یہ ہے کہ ) عدت میں عورت سے کہے کہ تم میری نظر میں بہت اچھی ہو اور میرا خیال نکاح کرنے کا ہے اور اللہ تمہیں بھلائی پہنچائے گا یا اسی طرح کے جملے کہے اور عطاء بن ابی رباح نے کہا کہ تعریض و کنایہ سے کہے۔ صاف صاف نہ کہے ( مثلاً ) کہے کہ مجھے نکاح کی ضرورت ہے اور تمہیں بشارت ہو اور اللہ کے فضل سے اچھی ہو اور عورت اس کے جواب میں کہے کہ تمہاری بات میں نے سن لی ہے ( بصراحت ) کوئی وعدہ نہ کرے ایسی عورت کا ولی بھی اس کے علم کے بغیر کوئی وعدہ نہ کرے اور اگر عورت نے زمانہ عدت میں کسی مرد سے نکاح کا وعدہ کر لیا اور پھر بعد میں اس سے نکاح کیا تو دونوں میں جدائی نہیں کرائی جائے گی۔ حسن نے کہا کہ «لا تواعدوهن سرا‏» سے یہ مراد ہے کہ عورت سے چھپ کر بدکاری نہ کرو۔ ابن عباس رضی اللہ عنہما سے منقول ہے کہ «الكتاب أجله‏» سے مراد عدت کا پورا کرنا ہے۔

Ibn `Abbas said: Hint your intention of marrying' is made by saying (to the widow) for example: I want to marry, and I wish that Allah will make a righteous lady available for me.' Al-Qasim said: One may say to the widow: 'I hold all respect for you, and I am interested in you; Allah will bring you much good, or something similar 'Ata said: One should hint his intention, and should not declare it openly. One may say: 'I have some need. Have good tidings. Praise be to Allah; you are fit to remarry.' She (the widow) may say in reply: I am listening to what you say,' but she should not make a promise. Her guardian should not make a promise (to somebody to get her married to him) without her knowledge. But if, while still in the Iddat period, she makes a promise to marry somebody, and he ultimately marries her, they are not to be separated by divorce (i.e., the marriage is valid).

Share This:
More Hadiths From : THE BOOK OF (The Wedlock)
Hadith 5063

Narrated Anas bin Malik: A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet asking how the Prophet worshipped (Allah), and when they were informed about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said, Where are we from the Prophet as his past and future sins have been forgiven. Then one of them said, I will offer the prayer throughout the night forever. The other said, I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast. The third said, I will keep away from the women and will not marry forever. Allah's Apostle came to them and said, Are you the same people who said so-and-so? By Allah, I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers).

Read Complete
Hadith 5064

Narrated 'Urwa: that he asked `Aisha about the Statement of Allah: 'If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (the captives) that your right hands possess. That will be nearer to prevent you from doing injustice.' (4.3) `Aisha said, O my nephew! (This Verse has been revealed in connection with) an orphan girl under the guardianship of her guardian who is attracted by her wealth and beauty and intends to marry her with a Mahr less than what other women of her standard deserve. So they (such guardians) have been forbidden to marry them unless they do justice to them and give them their full Mahr, and they are ordered to marry other women instead of them.

Read Complete
Hadith 5065

Narrated 'Alqama: While I was with `Abdullah, `Uthman met him at Mina and said, O Abu `Abdur-Rahman ! I have something to say to you. So both of them went aside and `Uthman said, O Abu `Abdur-Rah. man! Shall we marry you to a virgin who will make you remember your past days? When `Abdullah felt that he was not in need of that, he beckoned me (to join him) saying, O 'Alqama! Then I heard him saying (in reply to `Uthman), As you have said that, (I tell you that) the Prophet once said to us, 'O young people! Whoever among you is able to marry, should marry, and whoever is not able to marry, is recommended to fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.

Read Complete
Hadith 5066

Narrated `Abdullah: We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.

Read Complete
Hadith 5067

Narrated 'Ata: We presented ourselves along with Ibn `Abbas at the funeral procession of Maimuna at a place called Sarif. Ibn `Abbas said, This is the wife of the Prophet so when you lift her bier, do not Jerk it or shake it much, but walk smoothly because the Prophet had nine wives and he used to observe the night turns with eight of them, and for one of them there was no night turn.

Read Complete